A great book on gay male couples who choose non-monogamy is this one, here, and one on monogamy (albeit mostly for straight couples) is available here.
In short, every couple has to determine what works for them - what feels “right” for each partner, and the two partners together. non-monogamy has many variables in it, about the sexual, emotional, cultural, spiritual, family history, and even historical aspects of the discussion. This is because a sexual discussion about monogamy vs. Then, just when you think you’ve finally “got it”, things change over the course of your life and your relationship, and it’s time to discuss and re-negotiate all over again. It IS, indeed, complex, and it takes time and whole lot of discussion (often with a therapist to help) to work it all out. This is not an easy topic, and trying to over-simplify it just gets you into trouble. In my psychotherapy practice as a gay men’s specialty therapist for over 25 years, no topic among couples therapy is more frequent than that of the “monogamy vs. It is our great pleasure and a wonderful fulfillment of our life's work to be an integral participant in the formation of more and more gay families.Couples therapy at GayTherapyLA can help gay male couples enjoy a better sex life. We have also been a major contributor to the Gay Parents' Assistance Program (GPAP) through Men Having Babies. Worldwide has helped and continues to assist gay parents from many countries including the United States, Israel, Germany, the United Kingdom, Italy, France, Denmark, Norway, Sweden, Switzerland and many more. That is why it has been a natural evolution for Vicki to head one of the leading surrogacy agencies in the United States. She and her spouse, Michelle have two sons and they have brought them up in the mainstream, living on a suburban street with a nice lawn (Michelle is obsessive with lawn care, always seeding and sprinkling) and Vicki has read and played the guitar in her sons' elementary school classes. Vicki Ferrara, our founder, has been a gay parent for 22 years. Here at Worldwide Surrogacy, we are gratified and happy that we are part of this world.
It is not always easy but it is what we want �? marriage, family, a life together, a home, working things out together. Just like the Campbell's soup commercial showing two dads and their baby in a high chair, it �?s wonderful to see that gay parenting is here to stay in the mainstream. The two leads take the audience on their emotional roller coaster, showing all the nuances of a same-sex marriage and watching this show they learned that gay men have their own marriage struggles, arguments, tender moments they even struggle to get their daughter to go to sleep, just like straight couples do." ( Huffington Post, ) "This drama tells the yearlong story of an older gay couple, Rob (Patrick Breen) and Alan (John Benjamin Hickey) and their three-year old daughter, Nicola. This new play, directed by Scott Ellis, certainly leaves audiences with a lot to talk about. "Broadway's latest 'it' play about �?important themes' is Peter Parnell's �?DADA WOOF PAPA HOT,' now showing at Mitzi E.